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‘Are we dating the same guy?’: Women turn to Facebook to uncover cheating and violence
Experts say use of groups to warn others about dangerous men is indictment on governments’ failure to keep women safe
“Any info on Chris* please? Thanks.” The words in a Facebook post, above three pictures of a man. In the comments, a woman replies: “He was also posted a few days ago by someone.”
Further down, a second woman replies: “I’m shaking, I’m his fiancee.”
Continue reading...Users of ‘throuples’ dating app Feeld may have had intimate photos accessed
Alternative relationships site says it has resolved concerns about data security that tech firm claims to have uncovered
Users of Feeld, a dating app aimed at alternative relationships, could have had sensitive data including messages, private photos and details of their sexuality accessed or even edited, it has emerged, after cybersecurity experts exposed a string of security “vulnerabilities”.
Feeld, registered in the UK, reported soaring revenues and profits this month, thanks to millions of downloads from non-monogamous, queer and kinky users across the world.
Continue reading...‘Throuples’ dating app Feeld nearly doubles turnover to £39.5m
Platform run from industrial estate in Cumbria and catering to alternative relationships has expanded globally
A dating app aimed at alternative relationships nearly doubled its revenues last year as non-monogamous, queer and kinky users helped the UK-based business expand its reach across the world.
Feeld, founded by an entrepreneur couple in an open relationship, has said it is “on a mission to elevate the human experience of sexuality and relationships” from its registered office on an industrial estate in Carlisle, Cumbria.
Continue reading...‘Bumble fumble’: online dating apps struggle as people swear off swiping
Online dating industry in crisis as shares fall and nearly half of all users report negative experiences on the apps
In May, the dating app Bumble, launched as the feminist Tinder in 2014, ran what it called an anti-celibacy advertising campaign. It featured a woman attempting to “swear off dating” and become a nun – only to find herself lusting after a hunky convent gardener.
The backlash to the “Bumble fumble” was swift. Lainey Molnar, a celibacy-forward Instagram personality, said the company was “gaslighting women who refuse to participate in hook-up culture”.
Continue reading...‘Real love’ or false advertising? eHarmony sued by ACCC over ‘free dating’ offer
Watchdog alleges US-based site misled consumers about pricing, renewal and duration of memberships
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A popular online dating site has been accused by the consumer watchdog of entrapping singles by only showing them blurred photos of their matches and then locking them in a cycle of membership renewal.
The Australian Competition and Consumer Commission launched federal court action against the US-based eHarmony on Thursday, alleging it breached consumer law by making misleading statements about pricing, renewal and duration of memberships.
Continue reading...Customer data used for unwanted romantic contact, UK poll shows
Almost one in three people aged 18-34 have been messaged by staff after giving personal details to a business
Almost one in three people aged 18-34 have received unwanted romantic contact after giving their personal information to a business, a UK poll has shown.
The Information Commissioner’s Office (ICO) has called for recipients of such texts to come forward to help the regulator gather evidence of the impact of this phenomenon.
The ICO has an online form for people who want to report an experience of unwanted contact.
Continue reading...State-sponsored matchmaking app launched in China
Service in Jiangxi uses data on single residents to build platform amid drive to boost marriage rate
For single people, dating fatigue is a universal phenomenon. Hours of swiping left can lead to despair at the potential matches in your area. One city in Jiangxi, a province in eastern China, reckons that it has come up with a solution for the lovelorn or love-weary: a state-sponsored matchmaking service.
Guixi, a city of about 640,000 people, has launched an app that uses data on single residents to build a matchmaking platform. The app is known as “Palm Guixi” and includes a platform for organising blind dates, according to China Youth Daily, a state-run newspaper.
Continue reading...Dating app background and ID checks being considered in bid to fight abuse
National roundtable mulls safety strategies as communications minister says ‘no one law is going to fix this issue’
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Background checks and ID verification systems in dating apps are among the measures being considered as governments around the country grapple with how to keep people safe while they are looking for love online.
The strategies were discussed by ministers, victim-survivors, authorities and technology companies as part of national dating app roundtable talks in Sydney on Wednesday.
In Australia, the crisis support service Lifeline is on 13 11 14 and the national family violence counselling service is on 1800 737 732. In the UK, Samaritans can be contacted on freephone 116 123 and the domestic abuse helpline is 0808 2000 247. In the US, the suicide prevention lifeline is 1-800-273-8255 and the domestic violence hotline is 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Other international helplines can be found via www.befrienders.org
Continue reading...Call for dating apps to require criminal checks as Australian government plans summit on safety
Governments, peak bodies and advocates set to discuss security and verification polices next month
A criminologist has called for dating apps to introduce criminal history checks on users as the federal government is set to hold a summit into the security measures used by the platforms.
Dr Rachael Burgin, lecturer of criminology at Swinburne law school, said there was a clear need for dating apps to implement robust verification systems and criminal checks.
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Continue reading...Indonesia passes legislation banning sex outside marriage
Rights groups say amended criminal code underscores shift towards fundamentalism
Indonesia’s parliament has overhauled the country’s criminal code to outlaw sex outside marriage and curtail free speech, in a dramatic setback to freedoms in the world’s third-largest democracy.
Passed with support from all political parties, the draconian legislation has shocked not only rights activists but also the country’s booming tourism sector, which relies on a stream of visitors to its tropical islands.
Continue reading...Don’t swipe, write: Japanese city encourages daters to send love letters
Matchmaking initiative in Miyazaki has brought together 17 couples, as Japan battles falling birthrate
Japan’s faltering campaign to raise its birthrate has gone analogue, with authorities in a southwestern city encouraging potential suitors to put pen to paper and wait patiently for a reply rather than simply swiping right.
The city of Miyazaki says hundreds of men and women have dabbled in old-fashioned letter writing since the matchmaking scheme was launched two years ago. While there have been no wedding bells, the programme has spawned 32 face-to-face meetings and brought together 17 couples.
Continue reading...Blind date: ‘She ordered four shots of tequila before she’d sat down to dinner’
Sam, 29, lawyer, meets Jenn, 30, HR manager
Sam on Jenn
What were you hoping for?
Good food, decent chat, to avoid being embarrassed in a national newspaper.
How we met: ‘She was giving out free footballs, and I thought she was really beautiful’
Nick met Tess in Bordeaux while watching Wales in the Euros. But it was only when she made a dash to their airport to see him off that they shared their first kiss
In January 2016, Nick’s mother died. He had only been living in Bristol for six months when it happened. “It was difficult because I didn’t know many people,” he says. A week later, his girlfriend dumped him by text. “It was a really bad time. I’d relocated from my home town of Wrexham to be a theatre operations manager, but I was lonely,” he says.
He decided to cheer himself up with a trip to France to watch Euro 2016, so, that summer, he travelled to Bordeaux with a friend. “We weren’t able to get tickets, but the city had set up massive fan zones with huge screens for watching the games,” he says. “We were supporting Wales in their game against Slovakia.” All around, there were promotional stands giving out free merchandise. That’s when Nick spotted Tess, a French student who was working as a host at the event.
Continue reading...Blind date: ‘Describe Tom in three words? Not Jack Grealish’
Ellie, 27, charity worker, meets Tom, 27, auditor
Ellie on Tom
What were you hoping for?
Flowing conversation, free food and to meet my future husband.
Blind date: ‘After my rugby stories, she may not want to meet my friends’
April, 27, heritage project officer, meets Jake, 27, company director
April on Jake
What were you hoping for?
Someone based in London with similar interests, who was laid-back but up for trying new things.
Blind date: ‘He ate his burger with a knife and fork’
Ivan, 28, activist, meets Ethan, 23, masters student/waiter
Ivan on Ethan
What were you hoping for?
Someone I could enjoy a meal and good conversation with, and maybe a second date.
Blind date: ‘He mentioned he is trained to butcher animals – right after I told him I was a vegetarian’
Zardi, 26, chef, meets Nadia, 32, civil servant
Zardi on Nadia
What were you hoping for?
A laugh and a fun time, and that the conversation would flow nicely.
The great turn-off: has Covid put single men off sex?
Eighty per cent of American men say sex is less important to them now than it was before the pandemic. What’s going on?
Name: Flaccid fall.
Age: It is a relatively new thing, since the pandemic.
Continue reading...Blind date: ‘I should have stopped drinking before I said I was Charlotte Brontë in a previous life’
Fred, 26, PhD student, meets Laurine, 24, French teaching assistant
Fred on Laurine
What were you hoping for?
A genuine human connection, be it romantic or platonic.